This is a very great key. If you can take all the responsibility,
then you won’t blame anyone. You must know that this is your life, and
if you want to succeed, you will have to walk this road on your own. Don’t give any excuses and don’t blame anyone if you fail. 
Have you ever heard of this word “if”? This is a very lousy excuse
often given by many people. Let me gives you some example here. “If I
have a car, then I can make more money”, “if only I have more time, then
I will invest my money”. Frankly, did you ever hear all these excuses
before? Are you using them often?
These words are so easy to use, but don’t use them, they will not
bring you what you want. Take all the responsibility, only then you can
move to a higher level. Now, you must learn to make good use of this
power of responsibility in your life. How? Very simple, take all the responsibility and keep on improving yourself.
Allow me to give you an example here. Like me, I’m a student (the
moment I wrote this), and if I failed my exam, I can choose to either
blame the lecturer for not teaching me properly and there is nothing I
can do. Or I can blame myself and take all the responsibility, so that I
can study harder for the next exam. Therefore you see, if you take the
responsibility, you will have the power to improve yourself, you have
the power to control the situation.
The moment you blame the whole world, you won’t have the power to change.
You will lose the chances of improving yourself. If your boss is not
giving you a raise in salary, you can blame yourself for not performing
well enough. What if after you’ve delivered your hard work, still your
boss is not giving you a raise? You can still take the responsibility
that you’re not showing your hard work to your boss.





